There are people who believe True Love is impossible. There are people who believe True Love is for unrealistic people. There are people who believe True Love does not exist at all. And there are people who KNOW they will find True Love in their life.
Brian and I have found True Love in each other. A Love that is destined in our belief. (For all of our readers, just check out the start of this blog to see how Brian and I were connected in at least one past life together)
Remarkable enough we all seem to take certain problems from past lives back into the Here and Now.
So did Brian. So did I. We create circumstances which give us the opportunity to make new choices in order to achieve our personal goals. Problems are created to give us these opportunities. In the life we have in the Here and Now we are able to overcome problems we did not (choose) to solve in past lives. But how to do this?
You could use: Communication, No Judgments and Belief in Love. Love we feel for ourselves, Love we feel for our partner, our family, our friends and Love we feel for the people around us. The code we use is CNJBL…….you could also translate this as: Can Not Judge But Love……..which is a great statement! 
Brian and I have been apart from each other several times, for longer periods. Our Love is deeply Connected and we have come to Love each other even more! 
How is this possible when you do not see one another? I know people who told me they would be able to keep a relationship in perfect condition in this way too. I asked them what they meant by this. The answer was short and direct.
“Because you don’t see each other much! No fights, no argues, nothing. Just fun! No wonder you still love each other!”
Is this true? For some of us it can be true, without any doubt. It’s all about what YOU believe is true.
Brian and I have always known we would find True love. And we did. We recognized each other from a past life and immediately felt the same connection again. Brianeven remembered the house we used to live in, he discovered this during a hypno- session. I felt totally stunned as I heard him talk about this house. It was EXACTLY the SAME house I had always seen. Including the rolling green hill and our tree…Coincidence? To us it is clear we have lived together before. We simply feel and know it. This is a new world to Brian since he had never experienced anything like this before. He simply did not think about past lives and though he never said he did not believe in past lives, he thought of that as something beyond his imagination. In the hypno session he discovered he first saw things from these past lives and then started to think about it. Which was an answer to his question if he was just making this all up by himself. The moment Brian talked about the Italian house we lived in during our past life together it was very clear he really saw a past life with me since I had this memory too.
Brian and I e-mailed Skyped together for 5 months before we actually met each other. At that time we both already knew we deeply Loved each other. What an amazing feeling it was to be able to finally see each other at Bradley international airport! Our Love has grown and grown and grown ever since that beautiful moment. We know each other inside out. I feel what Brian feels even when he is 6000 miles away from me. At first Brian felt amazed as I told him I feel him all the time. Now he gets used to the “fact” that I can and even develops a sense of feeling me all the time.
Interesting question, what IS True Love… Does this mean there is Untrue Love?
Unfortunately yes………….Sometimes we simply believe what we want to believe when we meet a guy or gal. He is everything I always wanted is a saying many of us will recognize. Most of the time we project our wants and do not want to see things we do not like. That’s a tricky thing…..the person we believe we Love is behaving in the best way she or he can to impress us. This is why we say Love is blind. 
When the guy would not act like he is the best she could ever get, but would be authentically himself, the girl probably would not fall in love with the guy at all. So he wears a mask, holds the door, takes good care of her and after a few months or even weeks he starts to neglect certain things like holding the door and saying sweet things. The girl believes she is the one who has to try harder. She does not want to give up her prince and idealizes him. The guy however starts to burp more, farts in public, the hunt is over and he is ready to hunt again. Game over…?
The girl starts to weep and when this does not help she will start to complain he is so different than he first was. Yeah….right! The guy has never been different but he has made her believe the sweet guy he showed her in the beginning was the real guy. BUMMER! It seems to be the real guy is not that nice at all and breaks the girl’s heart. Really???
Can a guy break your heart? Can a girl do that to a guy?
No! The emotion you feel is not because this guy breaks up with you…you could also decide to feel extremely HAPPY he showed his real authentic self to you instead of marry you first and then show you little to no respect by hunting again and chasing other girls.
Of course this does not happen all the time, but it does happen often. Back to the belief a guy or gal can break your heart. Can he/she?
Do they have the power to MAKE you feel this way? No! Then what exactly did happen? Your fairy tale fell to pieces….that hearts….but YOU can also DECIDE that he or she is not WORTHY of your tears and sadness and CELEBRATE you Happiness above your Unhappiness! Be and feel HAPPY! You are freed from a disaster! YEAH!!!! Of course you can feel sadness too, the guy or gal pretended to be someone else, someone you Loved. But that someone does not really exist!So why choose to be sad? Or angry? Just a lost of energy.
Once you know you never want any experience like that again, you could possibly focus on what you never want ever again. Meaning you will be busy with what you do NOT want instead of what you DO want. It’s your choice… My belief is you better focus on what you truly want! What you expect is what you create!
How about the loss of True Love by death? Will you tell yourself you will NEVER Love anyone anymore the way you loved this guy or gal; then you will program yourself into that and convict yourself to a life without the possibility to ever love in that way ever again. Is this what you truly want? Is that what your Love ever would have wanted for you? So why make that into a promise to yourself and stick to that? To punish, to honor? Does it work? Will you feel more Happy by doing this to yourself? Of course you can decide you never WANT to Love in that way again. When this is your true want it will be your decision and it will give you what you expect. My only question in this would be: 
Why do you believe this is your want? Is it true?
There are people who decide to be alone after losing a partner. That’s a decision. I only wonder why they decide this. Whenever you feel 100% comfortable with that decision and it feels absolutely great to you I feel happy with that fact. The only thing is that I see a ot of people who act out of FEAR to attract the wrong partner. Who are afraid of investing without guarantees. And decide to stay alone because of fear.
I used to tell myself there would never ever be another Love like Paul. He was the man I Loved the most ever. I simply did not believe there would be another man that good. Till I understood, after several boyfriends who were not even CLOSE to Paul, I created this myself. I started to open myself up to the idea I WAS able to meet another guy who I could Love as much as I did Paul. Then I met Brian. 
Love at first sight. And guess what miracle happened? I Love Brian even more than I ever loved anyone! Which was impossible in my eyes in the past. But it happened. Because I LET it happen. I did not hold to my belief I would never meet a guy as good as Paul anymore. I let go of the old belief and freed myself from the self chosen chains that kept me prisoner.
Another belief is that whenever a Love has passed away you must feel sad for at least 2 years to be able to let go of it. (according to The Others) Whenever you do not feel sad for that time it would be impossible you truly Loved him or her. Because The Others believe you will have forgotten him or her way too fast. There would not be any space to create a Loving feeling for another person. And oh Lord, when you do! Judgments all over!!!
Brian and I told each other that when one of us would pass away the person left behind is allowed to find Happiness with another guy or gal whenever he or I feel it is possible. This does not mean we forget each other at all! It simply is a personal thing. Do whatever you feel is right. Love who you want. And never let The others rule your life!
True Love will overcome anything at any time.
True Love does not judge.
True Love is an amazing creative power and once you have experienced True Love, you will never settle for less anymore! Look at us! Brian and I feel deeply connected and happy! The Others react saying:
“What you two have is what I want to have too!”
Something Brian and I heard and overheard this many times.Our answer is clear. True Love will find you when you are ready. When this is? Whenever YOU decide it’s time.
Does this mean you will meet your guy or gal immediately? Can be can be not. TRUST the Universe will bring you together and ASK for it.
Like:
“I connect myself to the Light, the Universe and I ask from the depth of my soul for a person who really fits me on all levels, inside outside. I ask this person to walk into my life, a person who really connects to me on energetic, spiritual, intelligent, physical and emotional level.
On this I want to Trust.
On this I trust….”
Six weeks after I asked for the right person at the right time, I saw a little picture of Brian. And simply KNEW this was my dude……….
As Brian told me later, he had asked the same, connected to the Universe/ the Light, three weeks before I first contacted him.
Coincidence? Destined? To us it is clear what our belief is in this.
How about yours?
