It’s all in the believes…
The way we look at ourselves provides us with what we attract. When you think of yourself in a self-judging way, focusing on your NOT being good enough, you will most likely attract men or women that fit in to that lower image. Many men and women, who are suffering from a low image and a lack of self esteem, will attract men or women who are expecting the same. Getting the crumbs instead of the whole bread. Asking themselves weather this is what life is all about… Feeling unhappy and unsatisfied. The belief many people have is that something truly wonderful like finding the love of your life, only happens in movies, not in real life. But they are so wrong! Once you change your believes in this, you will attract other men and women that DO fit in! In friendships, in jobs, in all kind of relationships. The question I often get is the next: How do I do that?
It is so hard to change a belief that I have always had; I have had such a rough childhood! Or I have had bad experiences all the time! We all have “excuses” why we do not go after what we long for and do not ask for what we really want. Meaning? We seem to have forgotten that we can ASK for ANYTHING we want! There is a benevolent Universe, which some of us call The Light. A Universe that provides us with what we want, when we open ourselves to this extreme energy field. A place which is beyond our imagination.
I will share some of the miracles that happened to me, as I started to ASK for things in my life. That time I was in the middle of a divorce and did not have a home for me and my three children. Time went by and the situation was getting pretty awful. No need to say that I really looked forward to move out, but where to? I felt despondent, helpless and dependant. Where could I go? How would my future be? I lived with fear and felt really terrible. Then I remembered me the way I used to connect myself to the Universe/The Light. I connected myself again and said that I really wanted to ask for a house. I visualized the house with two large trees in front of the house, a nice neighborhood, a living room, an apart kitchen, a toilet. First floor three bedrooms and an attic with a staircase you could fold into the attic to create more room, instead of having a staircase there. With a nice garden and a lot of green at the back of the house. I waited for 6 weeks and then received unexpectedly (the waiting list for houses was incredible long and would take about 4 years!) a letter. I was invited to have a look at a house in my town! I was STUNNED!!!!
That day I went with a friend to have a look at the house. My mouth felt wide open! Here was the house that I visualized!!!! It was an incredible exciting experience! The two large trees in front of the house, the house itself, the garden, the wood (a lot of green) at the back of the house….I felt SO grateful and thanked the Universe/The Light for this gift for me and my young children. As I was thanking, a thought came by. Could I ask for more? Or should I be satisfied with this great gift and be silent? I thought it over and connected myself again with the benevolent Universe. I asked for a place where I could work, a nice light place with windows, a parking and lots of room. With, if possible, a little kitchen and a restroom. Where it would be quiet too, this because I do hypnotherapy sessions / regressions as well. (I am a psycho- emotional therapist and do readings as well, because I was given the gift of being clairvoyant. Further I do natural health care, counseling etc., http://www.psychischehulp.vpweb.nl) Well, one day after I asked this, I got a very strong feeling that I needed to go to the house agency. I came there and asked for the person to whom I spoke before. She invited me in.
“Well?” she asked, “can I help you?”
I hesitated, what could I tell her? But I clearly decided to be open and told her that I had felt this urge to be there at that time at that spot. She just gazed at me. I wondered if she thought I was crazy. Then she said: “Hum, so if I understand this right, you come here without knowing why and you expect me to tell you something, right?”
I heard how crazy this sounded, but nodded my head. She sighed. “What made you feel like coming here?” she asked again. I sighed too. “Well, I really need a place to work.” Then I told her about what I did and how important I believed it was to help other people and to earn money to look after my family. She totally understood my story and said: “I really admire your way of working, I think the world could use more people like you. But I do not have a place for you, I’m sorry..”
I felt so disappointed, was I wrong with coming here? It really felt this urge of coming here! We stood up, she gave me a hand and THEN she said: “Wait! Maybe I do know something for you!” She turned around, walked out of the door and came back with some keys in her hand. “Here! Take a look there, it’s a new building! Come back when you have seen it, okay?” I nodded again, too amazed to even respond. I got my bike and went to the Dolomiet, a street nearby. Then I entered the office. I stood in the middle of this empty, new office, totally surprised by the beauty of it, there were the windows I had asked for, the parking outside, the little kitchen and the restroom! I biked back and stood at the reception, waiting for the woman that helped me before. She came to collect the keys and saw my face. I cried.
“Why do you cry? Was it that awful?” she asked friendly.
“No, not at all! It’s beautiful! But why did you want me to see this office, I will never be able to pay for this!” She smiled. “I will talk about it here with my supervisors and I will call you back this afternoon, okay?” I nodded again. “Okay”……
That afternoon I got a telephone call of her, she told me I could rent it for a third of the price they normally charged….! And I accepted it gratefully. I thanked the benevolent Universe/The Light. I am still living in the house I got and I am still working in the office. I have helped hundreds of people and feel amazed and surprised by these miracles. Many others followed…. Now this may be a special story, but once you believe you are a special person, EVERYTHING is possible. And the old belief of this is not going to happen for me, is a belief that has brought unhappiness and feeling unsatisfied. So why not let go of that old belief? And make another one? That you are special, that you may ask for ANYTHING you want? And that you may ask for things to the benevolent universe? There are miracles that come true…and you are the only one that can start making them happen!