First of all, I am convinced that there are reasons why I remember certain parts or more of past lives. I explained this in the blogs before this one. Talking with Tosca (Todja in the Indonesian life) we both feel the connection to this life where we are friends again. Meeting certain persons with whom I used to be connected with in former lives, I consider to be a true gift. The things I was not able to finish or to do in the way I would have liked it to do, are doable in this life.
As I was little, I wished I could do the things I KNEW I came to do in this life, however I had to finish school first and sighed, knowing that it would probably take many years before I could do what I was meant to do here. May sound wacko, but it is not. I feel this in a most sincere way. Still I am a very normal person with a high intelligence, I work hard, live my life and do the things I promised myself to do. This is why I also know and feel that the second part of my life is meant to be lived in the way I plan to do. I believe in destination, not as in fate we cannot change and in which we would be victims, no, not at all! I believe in a self-created destination, in which we can write our own scenario.
One of the things I am going to do in my life here and now is help people to get insights, to hand over and reach out tools with which they can improve their lives and live their lives in the way they really want. I decided to do that by communicating, by talking and writing. (For more paintings like the one at left, go to www.elisebergshoeff.exto.nl ). As I met Brian, I knew that even more. Brian has the same view on life as I do. We are a team, we love each other deeply, we create ideas to help The Others and we learn from this path of life from The Others. We do not consider ourselves to be the ones that have all the answers, we consider ourselves very grateful to pass through everything we know and we have learned. We do this through the blog you are reading right now, we will be doing this with more books we will write and we will do that with films we will produce. How we know this will happen? We listen to what we know and feel. Which is called the inner voice, every single person has. Is that some ” floating” belief? Ha, ha, ha! No, of course not. We both are very down to earth persons, we live in the here and now. Still we both FEEL and have always known that at the right time and place, miracles do happen because we can MAKE them happen by choosing to do so. By holding on to the BELIEF we both have.
Is it a coincidence that Brian and I agreed in our life in Tuscany that we would meet again? Is it a coincidence that he felt worried then and asked what if he would not be able to find me? Was it a coincidence that I found him, as I promised? Is it a coincidence that I already saw Brian in a dream at the age of 9 and later as I was older? Was it a coincidence that I saw him at The Option Institute (www.option.org ) at that specific table and with these specific chairs and the huge glass windows behind him( exactly as I saw him in real life, where I realized that it was AT The Option Institute where I saw him as I was standing there)? Is it a coincidence that Brian wrote several years ago that he wanted to live, because otherwise “SHE WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO FIND ME?”
When we give ourselves the permission to hear and listen to our inner voice, the question what our destination might be, could be answered.
In my work as a psychological therapist I hear very often that people do not know what their destination is. They feel kind of restless, do not think their life is worthwhile enough and feel very often depressed by the lack of insight how to live their lives in a way that gives them more satisfaction. I help them by letting them discover their inner voice. Once they know what the inner voice is and how they can act from there on, miracles take place. Every time, over and over again. First they are trying to pay attention on the inner voice kind of thing. Then they start to trust it, because the outcome always is giving them the insights they were looking for. Then, they integrate it in their lives as a normal way to live with an inner compass that never fails.
Whenever you read this and want to know what this might mean in YOUR life, please write a comment. I would love to respond to that. We receive many comments through Facebook, our e-mail adresses and by talking to people. I want to thank you all for reading this blog and want to ask you to attend more Others to read it. So they can get more tools to create an even more specatacular life than they already have!