There are very much people who feel lonely. The definition of it can be:
A feeling of not being together, a feeling of sadness and emptiness, the sense of not belonging to another person, the feeling of not being complete…
The way people react to loneliness is different. Some of them avoid people because they believe that this will protect them from the sharp and even devastating pain they find in feeling alone. Other people only give their love to animals; this can even lead to excesses, like the woman who had over a hundred cats in an apartment or the guy who kept a young girl prison in his backyard for over 25 years without having any other contacts. What is loneliness? Is it something we can prevent?
To get an answer to these questions, it could be wise to start ourselves some questions.
What do we want?
Where do we long for?
Do we have expectations?
How is our view on this world?
Do we develop this view or do we already own it from the day we were born? Or even before that?
In a practical way, we can ask another question:
Is it important to know if it’s developed or taught?
Yes and no. Yes means that it can be a benefit to understand that we have developed our view on life during our experiences. We develop our own opinions….or don’t we? A person in a country with a dictatorial fundament, who is raised with racist ideas, will develop another view on life than a child that has grown up in a safe and well protected environment without any indoctrinating pressure. Still, there are people who develop their own view on life, even when they are raised in a culture that teaches them that violence is normal. How is this possible?
I believe that a person has a character and a soul. Character is a state of being you by knowledge, being taught and what a family shows by tradition. I believe there is a difference between character and soul.
The soul (in my opinion) is the real you. With all the information in it from many lives. The soul is a huge archive. Each time when we are born, we start the search of our destination. Which is the search for the reason why we are here. In the Light/ the Universe, we agree with ourselves to reach out for certain goals we want to achieve on earth. Some of us remember it, some of us don’t. During our life we can choose to hear our inner voice which will guide us to our destination. Once we are on the path of destination, we feel empowered, motivated and incredibly happy! When we are OFF the path of destination, we feel unempowered, unmotivated and incredibly unhappy, the three “Un’s”. We even create loneliness…..
Loneliness and imagining what life could be, but is not, is a choice ….
When you understand that nothing in life happens to bother you, you can also understand that there is a reason WHY this is happening to you and WHY you decide to feel unhappy. Some of us decide to feel a victim, some of us decide to stand up and search for the insights, and some of us just do nothing at all. It’s all a choice…
Since it is impossible to know every single soul in person, I don’t have any idea of what you are going through…BUT……I DO know that whatever is happening in your life is happening with a reason!
So, try to think about it in this way:
Everything that you choose to learn will GIVE you more joy in life! Will GIVE you the insights you have been looking for. It even will GIVE you a view on life in a positive and non judging way! The worse things get in life, the less you have listened to your inner voice. Things you choose by birth to learn in this life will create EVERYTHING possible, over and over again, until you get the insight out of that.
I have been having a lot of troubles and problems in my life too. I decided not to feel a victim, I decided to stay positive and always looked for the insights in it. Once I got the lesson which was hidden in the problem, there was no problem anymore. I got rid of it and it never got back to me. Here’s a question for you!
Do you believe that I am this extremely powerful person who lives her life the way SHE wants to live it?
By taking full ownership of what YOU want in life, by deciding to make a wants list with EVERYTHING YOU WANT on it, you can be more aware of your own goals in life. And learn much quicker!
So, back to the feeling of loneliness, yes….loneliness IS a choice.. There are HSP (High Sensitive Persons) who feel a sort of homesickness towards the Light, they are able to reach out for this information in their souls. They even are able to remember what they felt before they were born. The Light or the Universe is a state of being soul, a weightless sense of being one with a deep state of connected Love. No wonder that HSP can long back for that feeling, it cannot be found here…
HSP are very intuitive persons, they sense more than the average person and can experience more difficulties in life. Happily there are a lot of good books about this and there is a lot of information available on the internet. In my practice I guide a lot of HSP / HSC (High Sensitive Children) They all experience the same connection with the Light/ the Universe and are deeply sensitive and mostly very wise (old) souls. It is known that a lot of high sensitive persons are born worldwide.
Reading this all, I hope to have given you an opportunity to look at your life in a way that can bring you some of the answers you might be looking for. And whenever you have a question, feel free to ask it here, on face book or through mail (firstname.lastname@example.org) I will personally answer all of your questions.