About Trust and Truth………… Whenever we want to be honest, we want to feel Trust. Where Trust lacks, we will have issues with telling the truth. I was thinking this over after working in my office and understanding there are a lot of people who tell lies because they are experts in Fear! Why do people act from a place of Fear? Are they afraid for the consequences? Do they really believe that lies are a solution? And believe the Truth won’t get the lie? Another thing is that a lie can transform the truth you don’t like. It can even be you will really start to believe in your self created truth. But is it a wise thing and more is it authentic? Are you authentic when you are telling a lie? Or do you want to LOOK authentic?By being very convincing you can even start to believe it yourself! But as it comes to Happiness, does it fulfill your true wants?
Brian and I are always honest to each other, we choose to be open and authentic all the time. It brings us everything we want. There are far more benefits to being honest and living your life from a trustful place than from a place of fear. We both feel deeply grateful for that.
This brings me back to yesterday: Thanksgiving…. So many people join hands, closing their eyes and speak out gratitude. From a place of truth, from a place of honesty, from a place of fear and from a place of ……..and…………and…………It will be different for lots of people. The beautiful thing about Thanksgiving is that people feel the want to unite, to be open, to be grateful and then start thinking WHAT they are grateful for. And I believe there is a lot to feel grateful for! I believe there are many people who take things for granted, it is the way it is and they believe its normal and not a huge thing….until it disappears. THEN people look back in amazed wondering why they never saw or felt it before? The answer is simple…they did not really SEE it… How many of you don’t see the beauty of your partner, the Love and devotion they feel for you? Do you see the beauty of your bond with your beloved ones? Do you tell them you LOVE them? Or do you believe you don’t “NEED” to tell them because they will know this? How many times do you take his/ her hand or wrap your arms around him/ her? How many times do you look him/ her in the eyes and see the miracle of Love? Do you still cherish your bond together or do you take it for granted? Wondering people, worried people, traumatized people, I see so many people in my office. Struggling people for sure. And they all have one thing in common; they do not listen to their true wants and when they are able to listen to their true wants they create a belief they cannot change their lives. Well, have I got news for you! You can CHANGE ANYTHING ANY SECOND you want. ‘But it isn’t that simple!’I hear people say…My answer to that: YES IT IS!
First start asking yourself questions, what is it that I really want? Why do I hold the belief I cannot change this? What am I afraid for? …………. By being honest to yourself, it will be possible to dis- cover the Truth within you. This will lead to an inner freedom and the life you always wanted! Impossible? That is a belief too…………. I wish all of you to feel gratitude to be here, to be able to think, change, and create Happiness! And when you do NOT feel this at all, I wish you can find the want to change your life the way YOU can design it. With TRUST instead of FEAR, with a true believing in who you are and the beautiful qualities you really have. Trust and truth….they are partners for life when you really get to know them. How about you?