Every single person knows that all the experiences you create or have created will be archived in your system. That can be in a way you are aware of but it can also be archived on a subconscious level. Memories to be remembered or to let go of.
The Past has an extreme Power we are not always aware of. Exactly like the opinion of The Others who comment on that. When you have Close Friends they want to Protect you from everything that can possibly hurt you or stand in your way. They only want you to be and feel Happy. I understand that process of thinking, however first of all Nothing can MAKE anyone feel hurt. For YOU are the Only One to create a feeling of hurt, of doubt, of Unhappiness and most of all of Happiness…..
Sure, there will be circumstances that will invite you to respond in a way you Feel hurt or desperate or depressed. Still it is YOU doing this to YOU. There is always a Choice in what you want to decide to Feel.
Every time you do Unhappiness, no matter what the cause is, you will be able to let it in or to let it go….It can be very useful to let it in and ‘chew on your piece’ like I name it. To get your Insights out of that Past. To let go of the Unhappiness and take the Insights with you, to use them, to start to ‘better’ your Life…
I was watching the video’s on You-tube about the Tsunami. The devastating tales of people, the cellphone shots of this heartbreaking force of nature. Erupting waves, swallowing up people, many children as well. I will never forget the shouts of Death, nor will I ever be able to forget this small girl looking around here where just before her Mom and brothers and sisters were standing and now she was alone, standing there, not understanding…crying…no one to comfort her.
I watched people tell about how they lost their only child and how the force of the water was simply too strong to be able to hold on to their daughter and how she was taken by the enormous force of the water. The same water she played in days in a row before…..
The man sitting next to his bike asking God why He abandoned him. His family was all taken. I listened to the stories of people who survived and felt guilt. They survived. Most of them telling they feel obligated to do their ultimate best to be a better person, as if they they feel the need to make up for those who did not survive.
We all make our decisions in this. What to keep and what to let Go. Everything we experience can make or break us. It’s a Choice we are not always aware of. In this video I saw a couple who lost their 5 year old Isabella who started a foundation, they raised money and helped the victims. A Choice in the Now, coming from the Past.
I saw a woman who lost her entire family and found only one person back. She says God has made a better person of her.
Which brings me to another force. The force of Gratitude. Next to Love this is the greatest force you can experience. Once you Love and feel Grateful, you will experience a different view of the world and yourself in that world.
Once I understood this, it was possible to overcome the disasters I conquered in my Life. I could let Go of the Memory that created Unhappiness. I started to Embrace my so called bad memories and did not flee from them. No more. I faced them. Even the ones that were terrible. Even the ones in which I almost died. Even the persons in these memories who attacked me or wanted to destroy me. I can face them all. And instead of hating them I can embrace them, ask for Guidance for them. The third Force is being able to Forgive. Not in a judgmental way first judge them but in a gentle and Loving way, looking at what happened. Setting them free from your Energy, and therefor setting yourself free of their Energy.
The moment I could let it and them go, it let Go of me…..
How about you?