Most of us will start the New year with all Good Intentions… Quit smoking, getting another job, making up with the long lost friend, go to the Gym to do those work outs, eat less etc. everything intended to create a Happy New Year!
The Good thing about Good Intentions is that they are well meant…for that moment. Still Good Intentions can have relatives like Aunt Disappointment and Cousin Failure. Not to speak of Uncle You are all Weakness or Niece I Told you so! They all were raised by the ‘God’ father of all called: Fear…..So when we feel the want to wish each other a very Happy New Year, we could also see this as an open invitation to think about all the Fear we hold without even realizing we do.
Fear is the worst enemy we say, but is that really the case here? Without Sun there would be no Shadow isn’t it? When we would never experience Fear we also would not try our very best to defeat it….would we?
In fact Fear has another relative, actually it could be it’s partner, any idea what this could be? How about Denial? It’s way more easy to just deny you are feeling Fear and trade it for two other family members like Arrogance and/or Aggression….Hanging out with one of these family members can distract you and even give you the idea you are doing great. Sure, deep down you will know it, but who cares once you start to deny that little voice, it’s an easy road to walk. The only thing is that this chosen road will not bring you where you really want to be. In the End you will feel Alone, not really appreciated and feel the want to be honest to your Self. That is I can only hope this will be the case. That you will start to ask your self questions like: How can I feel Unhappy when I HAVE Everything…How come I do not feel satisfied? THAT my friend, is the best that could ever happen to you. It means you start to hear your Inner Voice again.
Whenever you want to be and Feel Loved, it is important to know who you really are and what you really want.Of course it’s possible you want to have an easy Life with luxury and everything to prove you made it. Great! When that is your true want it’s Mission accomplished. But when you want to give Life YOUR Life a meaning which is deeper than that, just dig in here.
Is where you are now also where you WANT to be? When it is, Congrats to you! When it is not, what could you possibly do to Change it into what you really want?
The fun of it is, we almost always SIT on our solutions but we can’t seem to dis- cover them. We are looking for our Happiness outside of our Selves. We make our Self dependent from what The Others might Give us. We experience Problems as obstacles that stand in our way.
But in fact these ‘Problems’ are placed there so we can start to hear our Inner Voice. Not an easy thing when you are not a Believer there is more than what you can see with your own eyes. Still, when you try not to come up with self chosen solutions, you might hear your Given Insights more and more. Just be Aware of it and start to Listen. It will bring more’ family members’ to you. More Positive relatives. Once we start to choose our real Family like Trust and Self Esteem, Honesty and Willpower, we can achieve Everything we so deeply longed for.
Like a friend I know who believes she will only be able to find herself the Real One out of town, creates a vicious circle. Once she would start to CREATE the Belief her Mister Right WILL come along she will open up the Attraction from within and the Universe will respond to that immediately. Out of the Blue.
But when you start to believe there is no one out there and you need to move to another town or country to find him that is what you create as well. How about creating the reality HE is already THERE…?You just did not MEET yet.
HE can visit or just drop by. He can meet you without any intentions but to get a hotel room and walk into a store where you guys start to chat…or HE can just have his car break down while you just come out of Wall mart and offer him a ride to his house…
HE will literally BUMP into you as you are already late for work and want to get some fruits for breakfast …
EVERYTHING is possible once you start to CREATE different Beliefs.
The Universe Connects wandering Souls who are on the same Level in their Search. These Souls WILL Meet at the Right time and Place. The only thing you need in this is hidden deep inside of your Self. It is the place where we do not look anymore for it has not brought us what we were looking for yet. So we get frustrated and invite a family member called our Aunt Disappointment for we feel really Connected with her during our Search. The key to this all however is simply but effective:
Just NEVER GIVE UP……!
My Good Intention for the New Year is not to feed Fear. To stay even more in the Now than I already do. I want to choose my own relatives to accompany me. How about you?