Everyone who tells you “love takes work” is WRONG!!!
This blog is hosted and actively updated by Mary van der Valk and Brian Ellis. We are in the GREATEST ROMANTIC LOVE RELATIONSHIP of our lives with each other and will use this blog to document the journey of our relationship and tools others can use to find and create a GREAT, REAL LOVE relationship for themselves!
Welcome to your best resource for finding REAL LOVE! This site ain’t about looking good to others and it ain’t about playing all the games that other dating/relationship sites tell you to play. It’s about what it takes to be in GREAT RELATIONSHIPS, ALL THE TIME!
Mary and I don’t assess relationships by how long they last, we assess them by how GREAT the moments are within the relationship, even though both of us are looking for a love to last a lifetime. So whether you are looking for great short-term relationships or the great love of your lifetime, you’ve found the right place!
This blog provides two things: 1) a day-by-day diary of the love of Mary and I and how we continue to make it FUN, EFFORTLESS, and full of JOY, and 2) REAL LIFE tools YOU can use on a daily basis to find and create a GREAT, REAL LOVE! And as we all travel this journey together, feel free to add your thoughts and learnings so our growing community of REAL LOVES can benefit from each others’ knowledge!
AWESOME! Wow, I LOVE this! You are going to have a personals section RIGHT??? hint hint 🙂
Love Jeannene
We are working on that! 😉 Love Mary
This blog makes me very happy. I love you Brian.
Is het mogelijk de site v.Jouw en Brian in het Nederlands te lezen.
gr.v. Tiny Elsendoorn
Dag Tiny,
Je kunt via een vertaalprogramma de site vertalen. Je kunt dan de site kopieren en naar Word tranporteren. Daar kan je het vertalen. Misschien kan iemand je erbij helpen? Ik ga het verder uitzoeken voor je.
Met lieve groet van Mary
Dear Brian and Mary,
Someone send me the link to this site and wow it’s a great site. Love the way you use simple stories to explain things. You’ve got one extra fan from Holland!
Thanks for the nice site!
Groetjes,
Ernestine
i m only search real love.
im glad there is a site that helps people to find REAL love!
i found the man i want and need in life almost 2 years ago and i love how i cant predict everything in life even though i live a life with paranormal happenings haha. i think every one deserves to find there special some one and i hope that because of your site alot of people will!
hugs and kisses from Namaisa 🙂
Hey guys, amazing blog! Do you have an email I can reach you on for a couple of questions?
All the best,
Matias
Hi Matias! You can email me at activatorman@yahoo.com and both Mary and I would be HAPPY to respond to your questions! May you be Happy, Healthy, and Empowered until then! Brian
What is so amazing? They look like a couple of real losers.
Hi Aneke! Thanks for taking the time to reply! The use of the term “losers” tends to be something used in fear. Our lives are full of Joy. I’d love to hear your thoughts on where there is “loss” in Joy. Yours, Brian
Hallo Mary
Ik ben Zoë uit Zoetermeer, ik zit in groep 7 en hou mijn boekbespreking over uw boek “Red de dolfijn”. Heeft u misschien voor mij nog wat extra informatie of tips, die ik kan gebruiken voor mijn spreekbeurt op 7 november?
Ik vind het boek heel erg leuk en ga er vast meer lezen!
Hi Zoë, wil je me een mail sturen met je vragen naar mary58@live.nl? Dan beantwoord ik graag je vragen!