Everyone who tells you “love takes work” is WRONG!!!
This blog is hosted and actively updated by Mary van der Valk and Brian Ellis. We are in the GREATEST ROMANTIC LOVE RELATIONSHIP of our lives with each other and will use this blog to document the journey of our relationship and tools others can use to find and create a GREAT, REAL LOVE relationship for themselves!
Welcome to your best resource for finding REAL LOVE! This site ain’t about looking good to others and it ain’t about playing all the games that other dating/relationship sites tell you to play. It’s about what it takes to be in GREAT RELATIONSHIPS, ALL THE TIME!
Mary and I don’t assess relationships by how long they last, we assess them by how GREAT the moments are within the relationship, even though both of us are looking for a love to last a lifetime. So whether you are looking for great short-term relationships or the great love of your lifetime, you’ve found the right place!
This blog provides two things: 1) a day-by-day diary of the love of Mary and I and how we continue to make it FUN, EFFORTLESS, and full of JOY, and 2) REAL LIFE tools YOU can use on a daily basis to find and create a GREAT, REAL LOVE! And as we all travel this journey together, feel free to add your thoughts and learnings so our growing community of REAL LOVES can benefit from each others’ knowledge!