When you Win you’re considered to be a Hero, when you lose you’re considered a Loser.
This thought crossed my mind as I was taking a break after writing some emails. What defines a Winner and what defines a Loser?
I personally believe a Winner and a Loser have much in common, they both get Insights from the circumstances they are in. A Winner may learn about what is really important, a so called “Loser” can win Insights too. I do not believe in Right or Wrong, I do not believe in Winning or Losing either. I do believe we create our circumstances in order to get the Insights we long for. Problems are never there to bother you they are our disguised Helpers who can teach us so we are able to get the tools we have asked for. I also believe we will meet the “right” persons at the “right” Time on our path of Life. Everything leads to what we can recognize as our path of Life and the sideways we take will just put us back on that highway of our chosen Destiny again. Not every person will be aware of this process but they all can feel the deep Happiness when they are on that road (again). We are All Connected. There are a lot of Light Workers here. And we can all join hands to Help.
As I look around me I see many little children being busy with football, karate, music, baseball, dancing, singing, taking courses to educate them more, etc. etc. Which is all Great when they WANT to do this themselves. Unfortunately I also have seen many children in my office (being a psychological Therapist) who suffered because of the need to do so much just because their environment demanded this. I absolutely Love it when I see kids having FUN playing football, playing music, dancing etc. But personally I find it remarkable to see how parents force their children to Win and not allowe them to Lose because this means they fail…???
What strikes me in it as well is the competition. Parents teach their children to enjoy sports while at the same time they teach them to beat The Others like it’s life depending. Parents pretty often project their own missed chances on their children, meaning their kids need to achieve what they lacked or failed in. Children who cry because they were not able to win and get yelled at after the game by parents, coaches or friends does build up their developing Self esteem. Children who need to practice over and over again in order to be a star on the field of Life get easily frustrated and buy the Beliefs of their parents, coaches and friends they totally suck when they do not win. So apparently losing stands for failing.
It’s all about Winning…..But what do kids win with this?
We all seem to “need” confirmation on good behavior. Normal to many people and to a certain point I can go with that as well. It’s nice when people you feel related to appreciate something you do. It’s great when they feel the want to tell you. But it is not something you really NEED in order to feel good about your Self. I believe Communication about Winning and Losing can mean a lot. I believe it’s a Chance to talk about this with our children. To let them be aware about their Self and how beautiful they are. To confirm them. To talk about their issues without a judgmental attitude. I believe in being honest and feeling Safe with each other so children can talk about Everything with their parents. Each child has it’s own Talent. By seeing the child the way he or she is, we can Give them Awareness of what is really important. To let them be who they really are. Never judge. Always try to keep an open communication going between you and your children. A Safe place. No judgments. This doesn’t mean you will agree all the time. It does mean you are open to see the true Soul your child is. To guide the child to become an adult who has an open eye to him/ her Self and knows who he/ she is. Awareness. Teaching them about Ego and Character. Teaching them about the “what you Create is what you Attract” truth. Tell them about The Universe; The Light. Explain them Spirituality is not a floating Mystery but a real Thing. To be acceptive, passionated ( I know I spell this “wrong” but it has so much more Empowerment in it this way) and Living with the want to Help and recognize their path of Life here. In this world we live in, it seems to be the outside overrules the Inside. Still there is an upcoming Change I can see very clearly. And not just me, but a lot of other people do too…
I believe 2013 will be the start of a Change in this all. More Transformation, more Awareness, more Awakening, more Loving thoughts and Beliefs and more Sharing. More Compassion. You can already see the Change. In books, on television, in films, in the way we Live.
More HSP are born. HSP stands for Highly Sensitive Person. Soul Connected Loving people who know they are here with a reason. Who feel the want to Help. Who will build Together on a World Peace and believe me, that IS possible.
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